The beach is my happy place. Warm sand, beautiful blue water, and a couple reliable submissives to do my bidding.
Right now I have two potential service subs to help me explore the island. They will be responsible for showing me the local flavors and hidden treasures. If I am going to explore a new place I don't want to see the tourist traps set up near the main cruise ship port I want to find the little town known for making homemade / authentic local dishes or crafts. The only way to really explore a new place is with the expertise of the locals. Sadly I only speak a couple words in spanish so having a bi-lingual sub with a car will also help me navigate this new area.
Public kink is a complicated subject but their are many ways to discretely bring it into a situation. I do not involve other people in my kink unless they have consented so if I do do something in public the people walking by will never know it is happening.
One of my favorites is using people as furniture. This is a kink called Forniphilia. It hits a lot of marks on the things I enjoy about kink and can be done discretely.
OBJECTIFICATION – Being reduced to something “below” human and “ignored”.
HELPLESSNESS – Whether bound by restraints or your Top’s command, you give up control.
HUMILIATION – Whether privately or in public, being put in compromising or revealing positions.
SERVICE – Feeling useful to your partner or Dominant. This can include the furniture aspect or even the sexually available positions that it can sometimes put you in.
CONTROL/DOMINANCE – Knowing someone is enduring an uncomfortable situation for you or the simple act of physically dominating someone into unnatural states.
(You can read more about it here: https://www.lovense.com/bdsm-blog/forniphilia)
I love the idea of having a sub dig a hole to be buried in for a couple hours while they serve me. I can get very creative with sand bondage...
A couple of my ideas for beach forniphilia:
Umbrella stand: Responsible for holding / moving / adjusting and making sure my beach umbrella does not fly away. As the sun moves throughout the day an umbrella need to be adjusted to cover my body. I love the sun but to much is un-healthy so this is an important task.
Beach table: Sit next to me on the beach and hold my drink / food. They will be responsible for making sure that I am never wanting for a drink and that when I reach for food I have a supply of snacks at my finger tips. They protect these items from the sand and birds that are an issue when on the beach
Human towel: I will need to be dried and my feet cleaned of all sand. I am an active beach person. I will be walking and swimming and possibly building sand castles.(I LOVE building sand castles). I will expect to be dried completely and all sand removed from my body. Typically done with a towel or hands but if there is no one around this may be done with a tongue or by rubbing my feet over a dry clean submissive.
Human foot rest: Buried or just laying on the ground in front of me is the perfect foot rest. It keeps my feet off the sand and raises them up to give me a more comfortable day. This can easily be combined with foot massage.
Beach bag/safe: I plan on working from the beach so I will need a place to put my computer / phone while I am working and a way to keep it secure if I decide to go for a walk or a swim. I kneeling submissive holding these things will be very helpful.
I'm curious if anyone has any other idea's for ways to use my subs at the beach?
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